What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
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4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
Any that are a turn off?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
29- How superstitious are you?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
What is something you have to share?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
Why aren't there any Indian girls married to Chinese guys but Chinese girls married to Indian guys?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
What are some downsides to living in Newfoundland and Labrador (besides the weather)?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
Please share Did you stop?
Why do men choose to marry a plain Jane woman over a pretty woman?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
Why do so many 18 to 29-year-old men struggle in dating?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
If gays can get married, why can't I marry my dog or a cheeseburger?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
Do you agree with Kamala Harris that Donald Trump is dangerous?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
Nothing too Serious
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
*** Questions About Me ***
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
How old are you? Male or Female?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
*** Random Questions ***
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
39~ What are your love languages?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
If you win, what will you make them do?
Family Relation Age Play
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
What is your favorite position? Why?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
If yes, what?
Would you read them together?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
Any that are a turn off?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
Do you think this brought you closer together?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
52~ What are your hobbies?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
The Ice Breaker Questions
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?